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Organizer: happy culture happy team
Deyang Mental Health Consulting Industry Association
Supporting Leadership: Zhong Suxian, vice chairman of Zhongjiang County women's Federation
Party and government grassroots Executive Leadership:
Chen Fazhen, chairman of women's Federation of Jifeng Town, Zhongjiang County
Yuan Yong, Secretary of Shiyazi village branch, Jifeng Town, Zhongjiang County; Jiang Haiying, director of women's Federation
Time: 9:30-12:00, August 6, 2019
Venue: Shiyazi village committee, shaoyaogu scenic spot, Jifeng Town, Zhongjiang County
Activity groups: Township grassroots cadres, left behind elderly, left behind women, left behind children.
Origin of the activity: Ms. Deng Yicong, a grass-roots cadre of the party and government, has been purifying and improving her body and mind, improving her mental strength, and recovering from a variety of physical diseases due to her learning happy culture and practicing the happy physical exercise method. The outlook on life, values and ideas are improved with the continuous expansion of their own mind. The code of happiness: serious and serious again, modest and humble again, the thought of accumulating virtue and accumulating virtue is deeply practiced in life and work, which is very beneficial. At the same time, after several years of fighting for poverty alleviation at the grass-roots level, we have deeply grasped the fundamental essentials of helping the poor first, supporting the will first and supporting the heart first. In more than 30 years of grass-roots women's Federation and three left behind work practice, I deeply feel the lack of soul of the three left behind personnel, the poverty of spiritual life, the health concerns of rural middle-aged and elderly people, and the sound mind and personality of children, all of which need psychological guidance and better positive energy guidance and practice. With a sense of mission and the special feelings of the party and government grassroots cadres for the three left behind personnel. It is recommended and applied to the local women's Federation for many times. With the strong support of leaders, happy messengers are invited to carry out grassroots activities under happy culture.
Before the opening of the activity, Ms. Chen Fazhen, chairman of the grassroots women's Federation, made an opening speech and introduced happy messengers, who warmly welcomed their arrival
LAN Caixia (Beijing), Cheng Xiaoying (Nantong, Jiangsu), Deng Yiping (Shanxi), Deng Yicong, Li Ping, Tang Chunlan, Chen Xin, ran Ruxiang and Chen Jun.
Li Ping, a happy messenger from Deyang mental health consulting industry association, Luo Jialiang and Mr. Luo, happy volunteers from Luzhou and Zigong, Sichuan Province, shared the opening ice breaking game "catching bees", which instantly opened the door of everyone's mind and quickly integrated into the activity. Through the activity, we can inspire everyone to think about the focus and the development of left and right brain importance.
The second "clapping game" inspires everyone to understand the importance of teamwork and the importance of harmonious development of family and society, as well as the powerful power of unity!
Psychological painting test: a simple painting "tree" can break the psychological boundaries of the attendants, understand the personality, psychological dynamics and the concerns of the painters through the paintings, so as to focus and integrate the left behind elderly, women and children.
When Mr. Li of the Psychological Association collected 23 paintings from the scene, he felt a sense of sadness in his heart. Tears were left on the spot. Four of these paintings were the works of the elderly left behind. They used their best efforts (because they had never painted a picture) to draw the theme designated by the teacher today. They also expressed their loneliness, helplessness and self-confidence through their paintings; When the children's paintings are opened page by page, the teacher, as a psychological consultant, can't help but shed tears. The children's self-confidence, their loneliness, their grievances and setbacks, and their own inner impressions are shown through the paintings. In addition to these commonalities. Teacher Li selected three of these paintings. These three paintings convey to her a real pressure. What these children have experienced and what kind of things have left such a heavy impression on their subconscious mind. The young owner of the three paintings, the father of two children, died. One child's mother ran away from home, and his father was in prison. This ratio is too large. Just look at the 18 paintings, three of them have such trauma, and other paintings also feedback other information. This is the left behind children and old people in our remote areas. Their life needs care and love too much!
Cheng Xiaoying, a happy emissary from Nantong, shared with us the training of improving our happy heart and strength - shooting rugby. She started with 10 shots of basketball and then 10 shots of rugby. Basketball is very fast because it's flexible, and it's very difficult for beginners to complete it even though it's only played 10 times because of the unequal radius of rugby. Through this happy mental training, we can tell you a philosophy: in life, it is easy to get angry and angry, but in fact, it is not in harmony with one's mind. When you encounter something that makes you unhappy, you can't control yourself. Love to lose temper not only hurt themselves, but also hurt the relatives and friends around. There are always busy ah busy, some are also constantly busy making mistakes, very hard all year round, and the result is not much achievement and harvest. In addition, olive homophony "drive laziness", and shooting football will also help to get rid of our laziness. Industry is like wisdom, laziness is nothing. If anyone wants to succeed, only by changing and improving his / her temperament and making it mellow, can he / she improve the quality and efficiency of his / her study life. This includes helping the rural people to get rid of poverty, and more should be done from their heart and nature. This happy training is not only a positive attempt by children and adults, but also an active experience of director Chen. The whole scene is "Hi" to the extreme.
The happy messengers also shared the table tennis with both hands. This kind of mental training is simple and affordable, and has low cost, which is especially suitable for the popularization of remote rural grassroots. This method not only balances and develops the left and right brain, but also massages the acupoints on the hand, which has the health care effect of traditional Chinese medicine. It is more important to focus on racking the ball, but also to count and break through the hurdles. It is necessary to have a high degree of physical and mental integration, reduce delusion and interference, so that we can no longer miss the relatives of migrant workers Beautiful.
In our life, we are either left-handed or right-handed. When we look at problems, we are either left-handed or right-handed. It is difficult to stick to the right. At the same time, the mental health of the three left behind personnel is particularly important. The happy culture and mental training course can automatically clean up the garbage of the mind, forget all the unhappiness and open up the inherent wisdom Wisdom and potential, in continuous practice to improve the three left behind self-confidence, help the three left behind in the special environment, self-establish a complete personality and relatively complete mind, will play a particularly important role!
Grandfather accompany his grandson, simply sit on the ground to shoot, adults and children are happy to bloom, the game is no longer a child holding a mobile phone exclusive, but the parents and grandchildren accompany each other happy physical exercise racket endless joy.
The two grassroots colleagues cooperate with each other tacit understanding, mutual exchange, one belt and one guidance!
Happy messengers Deng Yiping, ran Ruxiang, Chen Xin, Tang Chunlan, etc. shared with you the egg laying, which is also a very important happy physical exercise method. Part of the left behind children's grandparents can't control, they are addicted to the game network all year round, impetuous and hairy, it is difficult to focus. And some of them are self abased, isolated, lack of self-confidence and sense of security, eager to get more love, so they can concentrate on their mind and inject a steady stream of positive energy into their hearts. There was a mother and son on the day of the activity. Because her husband passed away this year, she and her children were very sad. But they didn't know how to deal with and guide their children through this special psychological stage. When they met the happy culture, they seemed to open a door to a new world, see new hope, and let her heart be full of sunshine!
Good cadres must take the lead in learning!
Happy little brother, I really envy your calm!
It's amazing. It's a success in a few seconds!
Son, the way you focus on laying eggs is the most beautiful in your mother's heart!
After a long time of hard work, the children finally calmed down and succeeded, with a confident smile on their faces.
Jiang Haiying, director of the women's Federation of Shiyazi village, Jifeng Town, succeeded in "calming down" for the first time.
The activity is coming to an end, and we still have much to offer. Happy culture, happy verse and short passages contain great wisdom. They are catchy and easy to spread. The happy messenger also taught the family members at the scene to learn to sing the happy song "great heart, great fortune".
Starting from one's own troubles
Don't blame others
Once you understand
Happy every day
2. Great heart and great fortune
Great heart and great fortune
Only then knows happy does not divide the family
Greedy words cannot hold people
The benevolent is invincible, and he is in the world
To be really happy
The heart must be opened up again
LAN Caixia, the leader of the happy emissary, further shared the happy culture of building a new era of great power culture for secretary yuan Yong.
Director Chen made a summary after the meeting, because she took her family to participate in and experience all the happy activities. She was very inspired and moved. She highly recognized the happy culture and expressed special thanks to the happy messengers for their love. The leading groups of Shiyazi village committee expressed their hope that they could invite happy messengers to work for more parents, villagers and grass-roots party members next time Part of the positive energy of happiness. Some people took a group photo to commemorate the event.
The basic concepts and practical problems of left behind
1、 Left behind elderly
The left behind elderly groups are mainly left behind in rural areas. The left behind elderly in rural areas refer to those parents who stay at home because of their children (all children) who have left the rural household registration for a long time (usually more than half a year) to enter town or work or engage in other production and business activities.
Left behind elderly people face problems: because their children are not around for a long time, many still bear the heavy agricultural labor and the obligation of raising their grandchildren. They lack of care in life, lack of security protection, lack of spiritual comfort, lack of care for disability and so on.
2、 Left behind women
The left behind women, also known as left behind wives, refer to women who live alone in their domicile places after their husbands go out or with other family members.
The problems that left behind women face are: first, the labor intensity is high. When men go out to work, only the "38", "61" and "99" troops are left in rural areas (respectively extended from "March 8" women's day, "June 1" children's day and "September 9" Double Ninth Festival), all the rough work, heavy work, busy work and leisure work in the family are almost all on the shoulders of "left behind women". 2、 The mental burden is heavy. The "left behind women" bear the double burden of body and mind when their husbands are not around for a long time. There is no sex life for a whole year, and life is like "few people to live"; the home is cold and quiet, and only lonely and accompanied by the sound of insects and frogs at night; during the day, I dare not talk to the men in the village, for fear of being gossip; The city is a colorful world. Can the husband withstand the temptation to work outside? If he abandons his wife and son, he will have nothing. He is afraid, lack of security and lack of self-confidence. 3、 Due to the absence of their husbands and the poor security situation in rural areas, the "left behind women" generally have no sense of security.
3、 Left behind children
Left behind children refer to the urban children whose parents or one of them go out to work in other places, but they live in the countryside or are not around their parents. They usually live with one of their father or mother, or with their next generation relatives, or even other relatives and friends of their parents.
Problems faced by left behind children: some left behind children will become strong and brave because the children of the poor are in charge of the family early. They are brave and brave. They dare to take responsibility, bear hardships and stand hard work, and take the initiative to care for others. However, due to the lack of family relationship, most of the left behind children have a shadow in their mental health. A large part of them show inner closure, emotional indifference, inferiority and cowardice, isolated behavior, introverted personality, lack of love and initiative in communication, and some are irritable, impulsive and irritable, often upgrading unprovoked trifles into fights. In particular, the mental health of children whose parents are divorced, one or both of their parents have passed away, or their parents have lost their ability to monitor their children due to work-related injuries.
To build a new era of big country culture happy culture, with wisdom to light the lamp, with confidence to light hope, heart to realize the dream, promote social harmony, China's heart to realize the Chinese dream!
A large number of migrant workers in rural areas have played an immeasurable role in urban construction and social development, calling for more people to pay attention to and care for the three left behind groups. In addition, happy culture has no copyright, and is based on the interests of the public, so we can use it reasonably.
Finally, we pay tribute to the grassroots party members and cadres and public welfare volunteers who work in the three left behind work front all year round!
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